M. 27 Aug 1828, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland2
Husband: Martin Furlong
D. 29 Sep 1898, Kilkenny, Minnesota3
When the Catholics in Ireland were hit by the potato blight of the 1840s, each family had to decide how best to survive. Do they remain in the country of their birth? Or do they pick up and move to a new land far from home? For Mary Butler’s family, they made the decision to start over in the United States, in a place called Minnesota.
Mary was born in 1807, probably in County Wexford, Ireland, to M____ Butler and Annie Murphy.1 Nothing is known of her childhood, although she seems to have attended school enough to learn to read and write.4 On August 27, 1828, she married Martin Furlong, a widower from Rathanagan.2 Along with becoming mother to at least two of the children from his first marriage, she bore him nine daughters and one son between about 1827 and 1848. It’s believed that two of the daughters died young.
When the potato crop failed four years in a row starting in 1845, the Catholics in Ireland were hit hard. With no money and little charity, there wasn’t enough to eat in most households. For Mary and her husband Martin, there were a lot of mouths to feed during that time, so the famine likely had a terrible impact on them. People started leaving Ireland in large numbers starting in about 1846, but the Furlongs held out for a few more years, perhaps because they needed to scrape up enough passage for their large family. In late 1851, they were ready to embark, taking a boat over to England so they could ship out from Liverpool.5
The vessel that took Mary and her family to America was the Essex,5 one of the many ships configured for poor emigrant families. The Furlongs boarded on about October 9th;5 there were 350 steerage passengers on the ship, and an overwhelming amount of them were Irish.6 One Englishman who was onboard with his family later wrote about his experience during the voyage. He described that his wife gave birth to a child who didn’t survive, and that “the only means of burial [was] for the body to be stitched up in a sheet and slid down a board into the water.”6 Poor Mary also lost a child on the trip — her only son John, age 125 — so we can imagine she faced a similar burial at sea for the boy.
Instead of sailing to New York, the Essex went to New Orleans, arriving after nine weeks at sea on December 13th.5 Mary, Martin, and the surviving children (all girls) were in a weakened condition, but their trip was far from over. Now they had to get to their final destination far up the Mississippi River, and this was done via steamboat. They may have transferred to a steamboat right after landing in New Orleans, but it’s also possible they faced a layover of up to a month. The lines that ran up and down the Mississippi were doing a booming business with all of the people escaping Europe, and only recently had they been going all the way to Minnesota.7
The vessel that took Mary and her family to America was the Essex,5 one of the many ships configured for poor emigrant families. The Furlongs boarded on about October 9th;5 there were 350 steerage passengers on the ship, and an overwhelming amount of them were Irish.6 One Englishman who was onboard with his family later wrote about his experience during the voyage. He described that his wife gave birth to a child who didn’t survive, and that “the only means of burial [was] for the body to be stitched up in a sheet and slid down a board into the water.”6 Poor Mary also lost a child on the trip — her only son John, age 125 — so we can imagine she faced a similar burial at sea for the boy.
Instead of sailing to New York, the Essex went to New Orleans, arriving after nine weeks at sea on December 13th.5 Mary, Martin, and the surviving children (all girls) were in a weakened condition, but their trip was far from over. Now they had to get to their final destination far up the Mississippi River, and this was done via steamboat. They may have transferred to a steamboat right after landing in New Orleans, but it’s also possible they faced a layover of up to a month. The lines that ran up and down the Mississippi were doing a booming business with all of the people escaping Europe, and only recently had they been going all the way to Minnesota.7
New Orleans as it looked when Mary arrived there.
Mary and her family settled in West St. Paul,8 a new community on a bend in the Mississippi River. They were among the first people of European heritage to be living there; largely the settlers were German, Irish and French-Canadian immigrants. Like many people desperately leaving a bad circumstance, Mary found herself having to adapt in a land that was unfamiliar The soil was said to be so rocky, that it was impossible to dig a well, and they had to bring water from a long distance away.9 One of Mary’s daughters was noted to have been the first death in West St. Paul during 1854,10 although the source doesn’t state which one it was. Likely it was 20-year-old Mary since she was on the passenger list of the Essex and disappeared from records after that.
The Furlong family would spend the next 25 years in West St. Paul; their farm was shown to be worth $2,000 in 1870.11 As St. Paul to the north encroached upon their community, the area where the Furlongs lived was annexed into the city in 1874. So in 1878, Mary and Martin moved to the town of Rosemount where they continued to have a farm.12 The couple lived long enough to celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary, but Martin passed away on July 28, 1889.13 After his death, Mary moved in with her daughter Catherine Furlong in Le Sueur County, where she died on September 29, 1898.3 She is buried in St. Michael’s Cemetery in Kilkenny, Minnesota.
Children:
1. Margaret Furlong – B. before 26 May 1829, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland;14 D. 24 Nov 1889, Dakota County, Minnesota12
2. Eliza Furlong – B. 18 Sep 1830, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland;15 D. 3 Feb 1912, Maple Lake, Minnesota;16 M. Francis Labree (1828-1909), 23 Jan 1854, St. Paul, Minnesota17
3. Frances Furlong – B. before 30 Aug 1832, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland;18 D. (probably) young19
4. Mary Furlong – B. before 21 Sep 1834, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland20
5. Ellen Furlong – B. before 14 Jul 1836, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland;21 D. 24 Apr 1921, St. Paul, Minnesota;22 M. Michael Kennedy (~1830-1895)22
6. John Furlong – B. about 18398, (probably) County Wexford, Ireland;5 D. before 13 Dec 1851, at sea23
7. Catherine Furlong – B. 26 Jul 1841, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland;24 D. 21 Jun 1923, Le Sueur County, Minnesota;25 M. Thomas Furlong (1828-1908), 21 Jan 1869, St. Paul, Minnesota26
8. Alice Furlong – B. before 19 Dec 1843, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland;27 D. (probably) young28
9. Bridget Furlong – B. about 1848, Ireland;5 M. William Maher, 2 Jan 1873, Ramsey County, Minnesota29
10. Jennie Furlong – B. 10 Jan 1849, County Wexford, Ireland;30 D. 30 May 1935, Kilkenny, Minnesota31
Sources:
1 Find-a-Grave listing of Mary Furlong
2 Marriage record of Martin Furlong and Mary Butler, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland
3 Death record of Mary (Butler) Furlong, Minnesota County Deaths, 1850-2001, FamilySearch.org
4 1880 U.S. Census, Rosemount, Minnesota
5 Passenger list of ship Essex, Liverpool to New Orleans, December 1851
6 “Review of an Active Life,” Juvenile Instructor, 17:4, George Goddard, 15 Feb 1882
7 The History of the City of Saint Paul, and the County of Ramsey, Minnesota, J. Fletcher Williams, 1876
8 1857 Minnesota Territorial Census, West St. Paul, FamilySearch.org
9 Letter from Hazel Swenson to Laura Mitchell, 28 Sep 1977
10 History of Dakota County and the City of Hastings, Rev. Edward D. Neill and Fletcher Williams, 1881
11 1870 U.S. Census, West St. Paul, Minnesota
12 Margaret Furlong obituary, Hastings Gazette, 30 Nov 1889
13 Find-a-Grave listing of Martin Furlong
14 Baptismal record of Margaret Furlong, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland
15 Baptismal record of Eliza Furlong, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland
16 Death record of Eliza (Furlong) Labree, Minnesota Deaths, 1887-2001, FamilySearch.org
17 Marriage record of Francis Labree and Eliza Furlong, Minnesota County Marriages, 1849-1950, FamilySearch.org
18 Baptismal record of Frances Furlong, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland
19 There are no further records of Frances Furlong
20 Baptismal record of Mary Furlong, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland
21 Baptismal record of Ellen Furlong, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland
22 Death record of Ellen (Furlong) Kennedy, M.D.
23 John Furlong was listed on the passenger list of the Essex, and there is no further mention of him
24 Baptismal record of Catherine Furlong, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland
25 Death record of Catherine (Furlong) Furlong, M.D.
26 Marriage record of Thomas Furlong and Catherine Furlong, M.C.M.
27 Baptismal record of Alice Furlong, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland
28 There are no further records of Alice Furlong
29 Marriage record of William Maher and Bridget Furlong, M.C.M.
30 Baptismal record of Alice Furlong, Rathangan Parish, County Wexford, Ireland
31 Death certificate of Jennie Furlong, 31 May 1935, Kilkenny, Minnesota